Also, if you think any venues should be listed as solely places for men to meet men or women to meet women fill us in, thanks if you can give us an assist. Use the comments to let us know if anything is out of date or if we are missing any key spots. We know the scene here pretty well, but not as well as the local experts. We really do try our best to keep our lists current but we cover so many cities around the world that perfection is impossible.
We aren’t really to the point of having full on trans bars in San Diego, but you can find drag shows that may help you locate ts near you at: You could also head to Rich’s on Thursday nights for one of the biggest lesbian parties in your area. If we had to pick one spot to recommend to the ladies it would be Gossip Grill, but even it is getting more mixed these days. The mixed list should have plenty of options for you and if there are no cute girls around to hit on head out and find another place to try. We are also not aware of any straight up lesbian bars in San Diego for women to meet women. There will be plenty of men looking to hook up at the venues we just listed. These days most places are more mixed LGBT style, and some local bars and clubs are mixed gay and straight. It really wasn’t all that long ago when gay bars in San Diego were only full of men looking for men to hook up with. Let’s start this off with a list of the best mixed LGBT bars and nightclubs in San Diego: You can take a look at all of our guides for the West Coast at that link. We know that you all have your own style so we will mention as many options as possible and then let you choose your own adventure. And since we all have phones attached to our hands these days it would be quite silly for us to leave out the best LGBT dating sites to use in your area. There are plenty of annual and more frequent pride events that also deserve a mention.